The most exciting moments of a new relationship you need no one else, if you have been in a relationship or maybe you are in one, you can bear me witness –you and your partner are actually against the world, I mean everyone else is so stupid. In a new relationship you are always fighting for fun, I mean the pillow fights and all those popcorn fights. (Disclaimer: This applies to those who have pillows and can fight with popcorn and not see it as waste of food and resources respectively)
Moving on, in a new relationship your partner sings for you a lullaby from your/their childhood as you lay on their lap and listen, you don’t need to have an angelic voice to sing to them – you just sing and that’s all that matters.
In a new relationship you hold hands because there is something about their hands and you always find a way of fitting yours into theirs. You are eager to know about your their practical life before you came on the scene. You notice how sexy they look in an old t-shirt. You hang out together all the time. You see pictures how they looked in the past in their childhood and laugh or comment accordingly with love.
The most exciting moment in at least every new relationship are the names you give each; sweet ‘kamonde’, sweet baibe, sugar, booboo, moomoo, sweet darling and many more (feel free to add more in the comment section). Still in the new relationship every fantasy can be shared even the far out ones. Things get really interesting when you get into their passions –say football, writing, swimming, travelling, photography and others.
In the world you need only them I mean living on a bench would be OK so long as they were with you. And in this generation you are always talking to each other even past 2am, you are chatting. When they tell you bad and horrible stuff in their past you cry for what they had to go through. (Though ‘some’ guys don’t cry) My most favorite moment in a new relationship is pigging out together –All junk food tastes better and no one is concerned about how unhealthy it is.
The most exciting thing about a new relationship is not so much that it’s them; it’s that It’s new.
Enjoy it – it lasts (about) six months
So for how long will a relationship last before it stops being “new”…..
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something like six months. . . yes that kind long!
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Then after that things get dull and boring? So we ought to abandon it and seek another new relationship?🙈
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No,. . the things you do in those six month act as foundation . . . so anything that happens after is an aftermath of your foundation you built.
[personal experience]
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Okay okay “Dr Love”.. Nice piece btw😊😊😊
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No no no. I am no doctor here. just experiences shared to enlighten our world!
Thanks for the visit! pass by some time again
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6 Months = 20% knowledge. Enough for you to know that when she says, ‘Teheheh, You are such an idiot!’ It’s her way of saying, ‘I love you’
N’est-ce pas?
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HAHAHAHAHA *insert that meme of Morpheus saying are you serious?* you know actually that post inspired to write this piece for today, well know you know. . . .
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😊.
I shall collect the inspiration dues later
😋
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Do you accept dues in kind (Payment in kind)?
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I didn’t even know such a thing as popcorn fights exist 😦 dating christian brothers will be the death of me seriously!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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LOL …. @Subtleroyalty come see. wait, what do you know by the way?
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Hahahaha!!!
Oh SB, You are hilarious!!!!
PS: Wait till you vibe each other using Bible verses 😉
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My thoughts exactly! . . . lol.
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🙈🙈🙈 I also want the fun stuff though
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The fun stuff and moments are illusions in the darkness secretes of love. . . do say I didn’t warn you!
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6months ke? new love doesn’t stay that long haba. 2/3months it’s still lovey dovey and stuffs, after that it just becomes pretty normal because they are past the adventurous basic getting-to-know phase
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You seem so experienced than I am!
but oh well, about the six months I said it lasts ‘about’ six months. I hope you catch my drift. . .
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Did you throw it? Loool just playing. Well.. I get anyways. I’m not experienced anything, its what I see o
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hahahaa oh well, thanks for passing by! its always a pleasure to have you here. .
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6 months Jjemba, only six months? Pillow fights go all year long then they graduate to more cost friendly fights around January hahaha. Very nice piece though 🙂
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Some people are actually saying six months is way to far. anyway thing is I said ‘about’ six months, literally it can be more or less. . .
Thanks for the visit, It’s my first time to see you in my world precisely the ‘comment section’
I am thrilled by your visit, kindly visit again and again.
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Subtle Royalttttttttyyyyyyyy…
Where are you? Joel Jjemba hey turned Doctor Love on us again,
“This applies to those who have pillows and can fight with popcorn and not see it as a waste of food and resources respectively ”
But the line is so Ugandan.. 😂
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It had to be Ugandan, I am an Afroblogger and 1:1:1 Ugandan . . . do you get my drift here. wait, why are involving Esther in this? why? why? why?
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In other unrelated news please check out this blog
She is new ish and killing it
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Because I can @ involving Esther
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Good luck with that!
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I have you, I don’t need lack 😊
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*lifts eyebrows and blushes*
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awesome
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hahaha 6!! but you are killing us!
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Die when you know the truth!
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Hehe nooo i’ve jam
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What have you jam on exactly?
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Ahem. i guess I’m too late…
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define late?
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Late is still feeling butterflies when she comes to check on you at work
Late is when you still hold hands after 3 years
Late is when you throw popcorns and bible verses like Nawo lol
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Can I let the ladies comment/reply to this?
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Yes, onto what Amanya said. That is why I said I’ve jam the 6 months. Sounds sad 🙂
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Well, it lasts ‘about’ six months. it can either be more or less. That kind of arrangement!
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Awwwwww!!!!
Amanya, so sweet!!!!
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lmao
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New relationships~ nothing has ever been so real, so innocent, so very lovable and memorable.
Well put Joel.
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Thanks for passing by Shawn!
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Six months!!! can one eat all the snacks in the world, sing all the lovie dovey songs in six months??
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It can happen though, be sure one of the parties is done and maybe he/she is playing a fair game on the other, say trying to fake it but really excited as he/she was at first. . . that kind of arrangement!
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